Facing adverstiy going from dating to marriage

Sandberg says there isn’t one way to grieve, but she’s learned that processing your feelings and not blaming yourself is an important part of recovery.

She poured her thoughts into a journal, writing more than 106,300 words following her husband’s death.

In fact, it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it.” ― Maya Angelou tags: adversity, authentic-living, being-positive, faith, inspiration, inspirational, inspirational-quotes, life, life-and-living, life-quotes, motivation, never-give-up, optimism, optimistic, persistence, positive, positive-affirmation, positive-life, positive-thinking “It isn't as bad as you sometimes think it is. Laugh in the face of adversity, and leap before you look. I have never in my life envied a human being who led an easy life. The fault-finder will find faults even in paradise. You may perhaps have some pleasant, thrilling, glorious hours, even in a poorhouse.

I have envied a great many people who led difficult lives and led them well.” ― Theodore Roosevelt “However mean your life is, meet it and live it; do not shun it and call it hard names. The setting sun is reflected from the windows of the almshouse as brightly as from the rich man's abode; the snow melts before its door as early in the spring.

It also tears away from us all but the things that cannot be torn, so that afterward we see ourselves as we really are, and not merely as we might like to be.” ― Arthur Golden, “But if everything was always smooth and perfect, you'd get too used to that, you know?

Facebook’s Chief Operating Officer Sheryl Sandberg felt like a ghost after her husband died. They were in Mexico for a friend’s 50th birthday celebration when the 47-year-old Survey Monkey CEO left his wife’s side to go exercise at the gym. “People looked at me like I was a deer in the headlights,” says Sandberg, in an interview at Facebook’s Menlo Park headquarters.

These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Be bold enough to live life on your terms, and never, ever apologize for it.

Beautiful people do not just happen.” ― Elisabeth Kübler-Ross “You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. Go against the grain, refuse to conform, take the road less traveled instead of the well-beaten path. And stubbornly refuse to fit in.” ― Mandy Hale, tags: adversity, authenticity, being-yourself, boldness, breaking-the-rules, chances, dance, dancing, finding-yourself, fitting-in, getting-older, go-against-the-grain, happiness, journey-of-life, laughter, lessons, lessons-learned, life-lessons, living-life-on-your-own-terms, loving-yourself, non-conformity, overcoming-adversity, positive-thinking, road-less-traveled, rules, standing-out, taking-chances, the-single-woman, uniqueness tags: adversity, focus, inspiration, inspirational, inspirational-quotes, inspire, inspiring, keep-calm, life, life-quotes, living, optimism, optimistic, positive, positive-affirmation, positive-life, positive-thinking, stuck “Nothing in the world is worth having or worth doing unless it means effort, pain, difficulty…

of marriage, but many are reluctant to take that step. Without the gospel and inspired guidance, many are wandering in strange paths and losing their way.After 30 days of religious mourning for her husband, a period known in Judaism as sheloshim, Sandberg typed out what she learned from grieving in a lengthy Facebook post.“There’s no way I’m sharing this,” she thought afterward.The challenge is to see the opportunity presented by seismic events. In the aftermath of the tragedy, people need to know there is something better.Following a traumatic experience, most people experience a range of problems: Trouble sleeping, nightmares, agitation, flashbacks, emotional numbness, avoiding reminders of the traumatic event, anxiety, anger, guilt, hyper-vigilance, depression, isolation, suicidal tendencies, etc.